Love or attachment?

Hey friends, I'm Shelly here. Today my blog is specially for our new generation friends,  today I'm going to tell u about some difference between love and attachment.so today topic is very common but very serious also.

So let's start....

 first of all... do u know wht is love??

So guys Love is a beautiful air in which u stay free as a bird.  Love is that word which have not a particular meaning it's has a beautiful n pure feeling.   But another ways love means putting other people's needs equal to - or before - your own.  It's something that can happen without ur intention or consent,  and it's not something you can walk away from. Loving someone means wanting them to do well,  being in love means putting them first.

Ab yh love teenagers m bht dkha jaa rha h,  yh trend sa bn gya h. But shyd humari bdlti generation K lie love K meaning bhi bdl gye h.

Apne partner s full day call p baatein krna, daily milna, uske sath ghumne jaana, gifts n surprises milna,  Film dekhnaa, special feel krna , daily routine work list share krna, physical hona N Marne jeene ki ksame tk khaa jaana,ek dusre ko khud ki duniyaa btana, 24 hour apne partner K liy hi sochna etc .

 ky yhi pyaar h??

If u think yes it is.... So guys it's not love it's only attachment!! That's all are your expectation, ur rules,  ur dreams which u want to fulfill with ur partner in any condition. Attachment is a need for someone to fill a void in ur life or in urself -esteem.

Bcse friends aise relation long time K liy nhi hote h or na koi inka better result niklta h n relation ka end dono K breakup s hota h jisse teenager as a true lover stressd n depression m rhne lgte h jo ki health ko effect krta h.... Ek dusre ko apni duniya btane walo ko ek dusre ki duniya ki hi khabar nhi hoti n thn sad status, ignore krna, number dlt krna, ek dusre ko blame krna etc etc.

Friends yh sb attachment hota h bcse of humm ek dusre ki life unexpectedly control krne lgte h, expectation jyda rkhte h,  boundation lga dete h, ek dusre pr depend Ho jaate h,  possivness, n in any condition sirf paane ki chaah rkhte h just like a thing.

But Guys, humans are not a thing ......why we can't understand tht love nvr makes boundation.
                  Pyaar wo h... Jisme dono partners ek dusre ki respect krte ho,  ek dusre K na hone ka pata hokr bhi ek dusre s bepanaah pyar krte ho, or time K sath unKa pyaar or ghera Ho jaata h, sath m free feel kre, bina khe ek K dil ki bat dusra jaan jaaye,  ek dusre ki respect kre,  n sbse jyda ek dusre K sath hone pr kisi alg hi duniya ka experience ho n much more friends,  it's love .....Maine kha tha na undefinable h.

For a perfect relationship... Yh jaruri h ki hum ek dusre ko smajne K liy proper time d, ek dusre ki jarurtonn ko smje,  ek dusre pr trust rkhe,  time to time apne love ka realize krwye, apne partner ki feelings ki respect kre, partner K family members or frnds Ki respect kre, ek dusre s dil ki baatein share kre but iska mtlb yh nhi depend Ho jao.

Now I only hope tht u can understand wht is difference bw love & attachment !!

It's difficult topic for me to write something about it.  So pls guys give me ur views by comment.

             Thanks friends :)